
உடம்பொடு உயிரிடை என்னமற் றன்னமடந்தையொடு எம்மிடை நட்பு
What the body is to the life within it —that is what she is to me.
Thirukkural 1122 · Thiruvalluvar
Udambodu uyiridai ennamatru anna / madandhaiyodu emmidai natpu
- I
Nichayadhartham
The betrothal

The rituals that make the promise formal, and dinner after.
The rituals that make the promise formal, and dinner after.
- II
Muhurtham
The tying of the thread

The thread is tied at five, to the minute; the ceremony runs from four to six. Breakfast is served from seven.
The thread is tied at five, to the minute; the ceremony runs from four to six. Breakfast is served from seven.
- III
Reception
Vaazhthu Vizha
Sunday 15 November
11:00 in the morning to 3:00 in the afternoon
Kongu Kalaiarangam · Erode
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Lunch is served from twelve, on banana leaf, in the Kongu manner.
Lunch is served from twelve, on banana leaf, in the Kongu manner.
All three gatherings, with a reminder the evening before the muhurtham and another before you need to leave.
Counting down to the ceremony.
The almanac fixed the hour long before we did. On Sunday, the fifteenth of November, at five in the morning, the thread is tied at Thindal Murugar Temple.


Kongu Kalaiarangam
Erode sits on the Kaveri, in the middle of the Kongu country — a town of looms and turmeric yards, an overnight train from most places and worth the journey from all of them.
By air
Coimbatore International is the one to book — a hundred kilometres out, about two hours by road, with direct flights from Chennai, Bengaluru, Delhi, Mumbai, Hyderabad and Ahmedabad. Salem is nearer at sixty kilometres but serves very few flights, so check before you choose it.
By train
Erode Junction is one of the busiest junctions on the Southern Railway and sits on the Chennai–Coimbatore main line. The Shatabdi, the Kovai and the Yercaud all stop here, and the hall is a short drive from the platform.
By road
Erode lies on the Salem–Coimbatore highway. Long-distance buses run into the Central Bus Station from Chennai, Bengaluru, Coimbatore and Salem, and taxis are easy to find at any hour.
Coming from far away and unsure of the connection? Say so on the reply form and we will sort it out with you.
Will youstand with us?
Kongu Kalaiarangam holds a great many people, but we would like to know which of them are you. Tell us your name, how many are coming, and whether you need a room for the night of the fourteenth.
யுவஸ்ரீ · யோகேஷ்
The things people have already asked. If yours is not here, write to us — we would rather answer twice than have you guess.
Five in the morning, to the minute. The almanac fixes the hour and we do not get a vote. Please be at Thindal Murugar Temple by half past four; the ceremony will not wait for us. Sleep on the fourteenth is optional.
Two. The betrothal on Saturday evening and the reception on Sunday late morning are both at Kongu Kalaiarangam. Only the muhurtham itself is at Thindal Murugar Temple, about fifteen minutes away. Each gathering above has its own map link.
Breakfast from seven on Sunday morning, once we are back from the temple. Lunch from twelve at the reception, served on banana leaf. Dinner follows the rituals on Saturday evening.
Traditional South Indian, if you have it — silk, cotton, whatever sits well in November heat. The temple before dawn is the one cool hour of the weekend, so bring something over your shoulders.
Yes at both. Kongu Kalaiarangam has parking on site, off Perundurai Road. The temple has parking at the gate, and it will be quiet at that hour. Volunteers will direct you.
Very. Bring them. A Kongu wedding is loud enough that no one will hear them.
There are hotels within ten minutes of the hall on Perundurai Road. Given the hour of the muhurtham, we would rather you stayed close — tell us on the reply form and we will help you book.


